Have A More Masculine Presence

I use to look like this…

No respect. And if you look at my older videos on youtube, you’ll notice I looked like a pussy, and I’m 5 foot 8… on a good day… But I was running a 10 man team a few months later, while still looking like that.

So it’s not fully looks and your build, or my beard that build a masculine frame that gets you more respected. The main parts were things I had control over. Like your mental.

I’m getting tired of saying this. You get what you think. If you think of yourself as a soyboy pussy— you are a soyboy pussy. If you think you’re him, then you are him. But you can’t pretend or try and trick yourself, because you aren’t stupid, you’ll know if you’re being genuine or not. The way to make yourself more masculine or more respected without actually feeling it right now is by doing what that version of you is or would be doing.

Say you want a girlfriend but you’re 5’6. What would you do if you were 6 feet? You’d go up to her. So you need to do the things that the version of you that you want to become would do. Obviously you wouldn’t become 6 feet tall by talking to a girl but you get what I mean.

Wanna make money but you’re too scared of rejection to go out and sell? Your millionaire version of yourself would go out and sell.

I was watching some Mark Manson last night and he just blurted out half way through his video “one day we’re all going to die… Does it really matter what someone says to you?” I’d say not, so go out and do the thing that your best self would do.

Doing this you’ll not only convince yourself but you’ll actually start heading in that direction. And same with the people around you, they’ll see the change. This isn’t an overnight fix, but it is an over night application— make that commitment to me right now, you will now act and do as your best self would.

Speaking is the most important part of communication— obviously. But I mean how we talk, something too many people do is say “in my opinion…” or “I believe that…” Please stop doing that, you sound like you don’t believe yourself. Speak with confidence, instead of “I think you’re wrong” say “you are wrong.”

Btw never tell people flat out that they’re wrong, they’ll resent you, this is just for the example.

With opinions, there’s room for doubt. But with statements it’s facts. And when you state it like that, you just are more confident and people disagree less with facts. You’ll also have more attention— that’s how Tate did it.

I hear so many kids either speaking too fast or they searched up a tutorial on how to have a deeper voice and they just talk extremely slow.

Don’t change any of that. Just start speaking from your throat, and not your mouth, try it.

I know everyones went over this but the way you stand and walk and sit is also important, you already know how to do it, but you just need to be more conscious. And with what you do with your hands, just keep them in your pockets if that’s comfy for you. But when you’re talking to someone take them out and either clasp them together in front of yourself and use them while you talk— you become a lot more charismatic.

You know the secret to masculinity, my beard— look at this. Pure testosterone right here. Anyone who says “it’s not 100% testosterone and it’s mainly genetics” is wrong because look at all the trans people with beards. The reason I didn’t have a beard earlier on is because you come off as less trust worthy to people if you have facial hair, and I was doing sales for my business so I didn’t wanna limit my probability of selling someone but now I just don’t care, I like how it looks and if you’re confident, you’ll close more deals.

Also a beard just makes you look better.

Please for the love of Issa, God, the girl who doesn’t like you back, your family, your customers, your pets do NOT grow out a pube stash or a patchy beard.

Quick moment of silence for those who are trying to grow it out… And old Issa too…

Just keep your beard trimmed if you do grow it out, same with all your hair. get the haircuts on a fair basis and also if you’re harry like me you might have to shave your body. Although I don’t, you’re a man, you’re allowed to have hair.

But if you’re just naturally ugly, it’ll be hard to gain the respect of others. That’s why all the physical stuff is still important because you may not get a chance later on to prove to them that you are Himothy and not just Betty.

So if you are ugly, just go workout, everyone says this and if you, in 2024 are not working out, playing sports, running or doing something physical on a consistent basis, you are robbing your best self. So get on that, just do something you enjoy.

Also make money, increase your income, I have a million videos going over how to start your own business or just increase your earning potential.

If you tie all these points together—

• Grow a beard

• Change how you view yourself/your identity

• Speak right

• Grow a beard

• Body language

• Working out

• Grow a beard

You will be 10x more masculine than you are right now, just put in the time, because the time will go by regardless of what you do— so will you regret how you spend the next month or thank yourself for it.

Thank you for reading, I really appreciate it:)