Get Rejection To Fear YOU

Lil Issa had just told his best friends at the time who his crush was after constant nagging, and instantly the two looked at each other with the most menacing looks, they look back at me “if you don’t tell her you like her today, we’ll tell her for you.” I shat my pants right then, “ wait what? You can’t do that!” Watch. The bell rang.

It was first period and I wasn’t able to focus on anything school related, all I could think about was “what if I get rejected?”

After the longest school day of my life the last bell rang, everyone was at their lockers getting ready to leave and I saw her… Getting ready at her locker too, I took the deepest breath of my life while my two “friends” were smiling from cheek to cheek it was so wide.

I walked up to her, kneeled down and managed to say “ Hey Bella, I like you” she paused and looked at me, the popular black guy she was into I think was above her and looked at me and just said “are you joking?”

“No I really like you”

He bursts out laughing. Then THIS B***H STARTS LAUGHING AT ME AND STICKS HER TOUNGUE OUT AND STARTS POINTING AND SHOUTING “EWWWWWWWW”

This led me to have a heavy juice Wrld phase since I had never dealt with rejection. Most haven’t and don’t until they’re basically forced too. And the reason we’re scared of rejection is because we don’t have the right mindset and belief system. And later on as I developed mine it let me be more successful in my business, relationships and just life in general.

The first realization that changed it for me was— everyone is so focused on their own world. The most important consumer of the brain for everyone is themselves. It kinda sucks looking at it this way but no one cares about you, especially not as much as themselves.

Be honest, do others embarrassing moments come up in your head more often or is it your embarrassing moments that come to mind more frequently? But it’s a relief realizing this, it freed me up to be myself more without care of what others outside my circle thought of me.

The big one that developed for me during my sales job was being abundant. And you really are abundant as long as you aren’t using your monkey brain or being emotional.

When you go through a break up, your only focus is that girl, (or guy, I won’t judge) Where as there’s millions of other women in your city, country or wherever you are. Same with sales, when someone says no, there’s always another lead, and a better one at that too.

Whenever something like that happens where you get told no, or you lose something, although it’s easier said than done, say to yourself, “whatever, shit happens.”

For your benefit too, change how you view rejection. I know this sounds a little 3 am David Goggins motivation, but who gives a fuck, so what if they don’t buy from you, if she says no, if they don’t want to work with you. Your world will not end, and you’ll still get to your goal, just in another way.

And you learn the most in life through experience. And if you’re reading stuff like this you’re ahead of 90% of people, and I’m not just saying this so you like me more, I mean it. But if you want to be in the top 3% or even 1% you have to do what the 99% won’t do. You have to take action. It’s up to you if you want to do it.

Do something outside of what you normally do this week. Whether that be you go up to a girl and ask for her number, try and sell something, or just ask someone for something. Do something this week that deals with facing rejection, your life will not get worse if you do it.

If anything it’ll be significantly better because you become better with rejection, or you get the thing you want.

Have a good one:)